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Why you should take couples massage classes

I’ve been telling husbands for years that they should learn how to give a good sensual massage. It’s one of my go-to recommendations for helping couples when it comes to sexual intimacy. The couples who have tried it all agree – it can transform a marriage to gain the skill of giving good massages. Both husbands and wives benefit from taking a couples massage course, though the immediate draw might be different.

In this post, I’m going to tell you a bit about why you should take a couples massage course. I’ll also let you know my favourite couples massage course out there.

SWM 070 – Feb 2021 Questions – Semi-public sex, squirting, falling asleep during sex and more

Topics Include:
Semi-public sex
Squirting
Low drive wife
Fell asleep during sex
Wife doesn’t like physical contact
What is pornographic
Poophole loophole

SWM 069 – Is it okay to remarry after being divorced?

A friend of mine recently asked if the Bible allows you to remarry after you’ve been divorced. Her impression from reading the Bible was that if you were divorced and remarried, not only would you be committing adultery in God’s eyes, but so too would be your future spouse. Knowing that I like to tackle difficult questions, she asked me – is it okay to remarry after being divorced?

SWM 068 – Jan 2020 Questions – Nudists, exhibitionism, male lingerie, pet play, ANR and more

Topic include:
Is nudism a sin?
Is exhibitionism okay?
Does Romans 13:14 say you shouldn’t plan for sex?
Wife won’t get help for trauma
How do I start an ANR?
How do I be a respectful wife when my husband is watching porn?
Is male lingerie okay?
Doggy style is too deep
Opposite sleep schedules affecting sex

SWM 067 – Infatuation, New Relationship Energy, and Love

Why you don’t have that “I want to rip your clothes off” feeling anymore. In this post/podcast episode, I tackle the question of what causes that feeling, and the neuro-chemicals involved.

SWM 066 – Dec 2020 Questions – Shaking legs, wife changed after separation, birth control and more

Topics include:
Legs shaking during oral sex
Wife changed after separation
Feeling drained after oral sex
Birth control
Cock worship
Go see a doctor if you are worried about your health

SWM 065 – Nov 2020 Questions – High sex drives, losing erections, being too loud, vaginismus and more

In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:
Managing a high sex drive
Losing erections while changing positions
Being too loud during sex
Husband thinks his wife is sexually boring
Vaginismus
How do you surrender and give God control in your life?

SWM 064 – Oct 2020 Questions – Body odour, remarriage, doggy style sex and more

Topics include:
The Motorbunny
Where’s the eye candy for women?
Body odour
Remarriage
Hating doggy style
Nagging

SWM 063 – Sermon – It’s all worth it

I’m preaching this weekend in my home church, and so, I thought I’d share my sermon, both because I feel bad that I haven’t been working as much on getting podcast episodes out because of it, and because I thought it might be a good way to practice it, do some final editing and figure out how long it would be.

Black Friday Deals for your Marriage – Save up to 50%

Well, Black Friday is upon us again and that means Christmas shopping for a lot of people. 2020 has been a very strange year, hasn’t it? But, we’re in the home stretch now, 2021 is coming up fast. In the meantime, here’s a quick rundown of the deals out there that I’m aware of in case you’re looking for a way to make your Christmas a little more intimate this year.