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All You Want Is Sex

One of our largest topics for fighting conflict (in the past) is that I (from her perspective) “want sex all the time”.  I have pretty hard time denying that allegation, because, well, it’s true. I see this theme a lot in my readings on message

How To Spice Up Your Sex Life

OK, I know, I know, every blog about marriage, relationships, etc has at least one article with that title.  They usual have a large list of techniques, activities.  Maybe they suggest a blindfold (gasp).  But that’s the easy stuff.  I think you guys are ready

Praying With Your Spouse

At weddings, I have been known to stand up and give an analogy of marriage as a three legged stool. The three legs of a marriage (in my short talk) are: Spiritual Intimacy Emotional Intimacy Physical Intimacy You need all three in order to have

Sexual Bets To Drive Personal Development

A couple of posts ago, I wrote about my wife and I placing sexual bets on a card game, and we had an awesome time.  Not only was the sex fun, but it brought a new element of fun to the card game as well.

What Should I Get My Husband For Father’s Day?

So, its fathers day.  Do you have a gift yet?  I have good news for you.  You don’t need to buy one.  Here’s what most husbands want for fathers day: The act that made them a father in the first place given, not out of

New Twist on an old Game: Sexual Bets

Last week, my wife and I were chatting over Facebook (I was at work, she was on her phone).  We were discussing the plans for the evening, were there any meetings, clubs, activities, etc that we are required to go to.  Then she sent me

What I Hate About Breastfeeding

OK, this is largely a rant, so hang on. We’re currently enjoying our fourth newborn.  All our children have been breastfed, and this one is no different.  Let me start by saying that I 100% agree with breastfeeding children.  I think it’s the healthiest thing

Is Sex A Need Or A Want

I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about this topic for the last few days, weeks, months, years.  I guess it’s been on my mind since I got married, or shortly afterwards.  As stated in my first post, my marriage started off a little rocky,

Why Your Wife Can’t Tell You What She Wants

If your wife is like mine in this regard, and from my conversations with other men, many are, your wife does not like to tell you what she wants from you.  Generally she can’t tell you what she wants at all.  Your life is full

How Pregnancy Affects Sex

We recently welcomed our fourth child into our family and I thought I’d write a bit to reflect what’s going on.  Specifically how pregnancy and after the birth affect sex from the male perspective. Now, I know this may upset some of the women who read this,

Sexual Frequency: Why I Don’t Worry Anymore

For the first 8 or so years of my marriage, a constant argument was the frequency of sex.  This seems to be a common theme with many couples.  At least the ones who are willing to talk about it.  In fact, I’m not sure I’ve