Talking about sex survey

Christian Sex Surveys

I was going to write a post today about talking about sex with your spouse, but I want to get some data first.  So, let’s see how many responses we can get in the next week. You can fill out the survey here to share your

Have you prepared your kids for the first time they will see porn?

Your children will watch porn.  Does that thought terrify you?  It did for me the first time I thought it.  And before you think, “No, I can keep them from it”, I’m sad to say you can’t.  Not in this world that they’re growing up

How to survive a growth season in your marriage

How to survive a growth season in your marriage

If you’ve been married for a few years, you probably know that marriages have seasons. Some are fun, some are exciting.  Some are amazing and intense.  Some are a bit dull.  When you’re just slogging through life, and some are a bit more oppressive than

Sex is not icing on the cake

Sex is not icing on the cake, it’s the eggs in the cake

There’s been a saying in Christian circles that’s been driving me crazy for a while now. You’ve probably heard it. I know I did many times before I got married. “Sex is not that important. It’s just icing on the cake.”  Or some variant of

Making your spouse earn sex makes you feel like a prostitute

Making your spouse earn sex can make you feel like a prostitute

We see a lot of people in Christianity saying that men have to earn the right to have sex with their wife.  While I believe the advice is well-intentioned, and may even be practical, it is not biblical and it leads to some serious issues.

Why am I always the one who has to initiate sex?

This past week, we were having a discussion in our Uncovering Intimacy Champions group.  I won’t post the full start of the conversation because I haven’t asked if I could, but the gist of it was this:  How do you keep initiating sex when your spouse,

I'll never be good enough

I’ll never be good enough

When we started fixing our marriage and my wife realized how important sex was both to me and to our relationship, we started improving our physical relationship.  We had sex more often, and it was more varied.  We both enjoyed the changes. However, a discussion

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SWM030 – Credentials, sex and sickness, falling out of love, self control and how to start leading

Today I’m answering some more questions from our Have A Question page that have come in over the last month or so.  This episode I talk about my credentials,

Review: Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System

Every month, more than 1000 people come to this blog looking for information on how to introduce bondage into their marital bed or asking why it is that their spouse wants to be tied up.  Some of that is due to the 50 Shades of

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SWM029 – Fantasy affairs, anal sex, golden showers, work during sex and low drives

Episode 29 of the podcast.  Here are the questions I’m answering today: Question 1 194 – My question is about lust. Here’s my problem. I absolutely adore my wife

Why do I smell bad (down there) after we've had sex?

Why do I smell bad (down there) after we’ve had sex?

There are many women who suffer from this condition, an unpleasant smell or odour after sex, sometimes for days or even a week afterwards.  Here’s a question about it from one of our readers: I have a question I have wondered about for years. This