Topics include:
Fix the alcohol abuse before trying to fix your sex life
Wife who has hourly mood swings and is disrespectful
Wife who engages in sex, but isn’t sexual
Oxytocin and porn and masturbation
Wife wants husband to get a vasectomy
Clone-a-willy question
Search Results for: survey
SWM 086 – Sex with a well endowed husband
Today we’re going to answer a question about having sex with a well-endowed husband. This question came in a while ago, and since I hadn’t answered it before and I felt there was a lot of information to share, I thought I’d split it off into its own post. So, let’s talk about the struggles of having a larger-than-average-sized penis.
SWM 085 – December 2021 Anonymous Questions
Topics Include:
Wet Dreams
Money and Marriage
Handjobs and control
Is my dead husband still with me?
Are dreams sinful?
How do I take control of my marriage?
Sex once a year
Is it wrong for a widow to have desires?
Unsatisfied with little sex
Wife suddenly changed oral skills
Best position for first time
Is oral sex a sin?
Husband has a lot more experience
Movies to get in the mood
Prepping for anal sex
How can I get my wife to show more passion?
Issues with wife’s self-esteem
Questions about lube
Realistic toys
SWM 080 – Is premature orgasm a thing for women? How do you last longer?
So my husband and I have been married for about 8 months now. It seems like every time he gives me oral sex, I end up orgasming within just a few minutes. Now, as great as orgasming is, I feel like after I orgasm so quickly, I am not as stimulated by penetration. Also, I really enjoy oral sex and I wish the experience could last longer. My husband and I waited until marriage to have sex. But before I was following Christ and before I met my husband, I was sexually active, including oral sex, and this never happened. So my questions are: 1) is this normal? is “premature ejaculation” a thing in women? 2) are there any ways to fix this and/or last longer? and 3) in women, if you orgasm once, is there a “come down” period? How is it possible to have multiple orgasms in one “sex session”?
SWM 076 – June 2021 Questions – Boring sex lives, ED and PE troubles and breast play
Topics Include:
How to improve a boring sex life
Why only ED during sex?
Meds for Premature Ejaculation
Risky public sex
Should I talk to my doctor if I have ED?
Fantasizing about premarital sex
Turned on by my wife urinating
Wife with no interest in sex
Is breastplay required for a good marriage?
SWM 075 – May 2021 Questions – How we look at sex, refractory periods, asking about orgasms and more
In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:
How we look at sex
Why we have refractory periods
Whether or not it’s common for a husband to have to ask his wife if she had an orgasm
A husband who is secretly purchasing toys
A widow who wants to know what happened to her husband who was cremated
Why you should take couples massage classes
I’ve been telling husbands for years that they should learn how to give a good sensual massage. It’s one of my go-to recommendations for helping couples when it comes to sexual intimacy. The couples who have tried it all agree – it can transform a marriage to gain the skill of giving good massages. Both husbands and wives benefit from taking a couples massage course, though the immediate draw might be different.
In this post, I’m going to tell you a bit about why you should take a couples massage course. I’ll also let you know my favourite couples massage course out there.
SWM 070 – Feb 2021 Questions – Semi-public sex, squirting, falling asleep during sex and more
Topics Include:
Semi-public sex
Squirting
Low drive wife
Fell asleep during sex
Wife doesn’t like physical contact
What is pornographic
Poophole loophole
SWM 067 – Infatuation, New Relationship Energy, and Love
Why you don’t have that “I want to rip your clothes off” feeling anymore. In this post/podcast episode, I tackle the question of what causes that feeling, and the neuro-chemicals involved.
SWM 061 – September 2020 Questions – High Drive Wives, Being Too Wet, Polyamory and more
Topics include:
Husbands who refuse sex
Being too wet
Pegging
Dreams
Needing different kinds of foreplay
Polyamory
Cuckolding
What’s the best way to initiate sex?
For the last month or so, we’ve had a survey open about how you prefer to have your spouse initiate sex. If you never got a chance, you can fill it out here. I do sometimes delve into old surveys to answer new questions, so