How to stop fighting in your marriage

You cannot avoid conflict in marriage. Conflict is inevitable. In fact, if there’s no conflict, that’s a big red flag in my books. It means that you aren’t communicating at all.

The question is whether or not your conflict is effective, productive and respectful, or if it devolves into an unproductive yelling match to see who is louder leaving nothing resolved in the end.

Towards that end, here are some existing post that may help you stop fighting and move instead towards effective conflict resolution:

How to stop fighting
How to use conflict to create intimacy
SWM 131 – Tips to fight more effectively
SWM 121 – Why marriage should be hard work
Guest on HabitMasters.com – #120: Spark Your Marriage: Unlock Communication and Intimacy with Coach Jay Dee

If you still have questions or are struggling in your marriage after implementing those ideas, then contact us to ask a question, or get coaching.