Marriage & Life Coaching
Are you looking for some help with your marriage? Something that’s more targeted and tailored to you than reading blog posts or self-help books?
Coaching is a co-creative partnering between you, as a couple or individually, and your coach. You’ll work together, for a time, to achieve specific goals, set out by you. The job of your coach is to help you
- Draw out what your goals are for your marriage
- Assess the current reality in your marriage
- Plan steps and give you options to close the gap between your current reality and your goals
- Stay accountable to meeting your goals
Along the way, your coach will bring you resources, tools, tips and an outside perspective to help you succeed in those goals, to help bring your marriage to the next level, whatever that means for you.
Coaching is not counseling nor therapy
We are working from the assumption that you are healthy, stable individuals whose marriage isn’t broken, so much as it just needs a little help getting past an obstacle, or out of a rut, or you just need to enhance a marriage skill, like communication. There is no judgement, no condemnation, and I have seen or heard of just about every hurdle in marriage over the last few years of blogging and coaching couples. At every step along the way, my goal will be to set you up to have the best chance to succeed, to grow into the thriving marriage I know God wants you to have.
Everyone has hurdles in their marriage at some point
Most of us aren’t born with expert communication or raised being taught about the finer points of married sexuality. Despite the Bible’s assurances that sex is a good, godly activity for a married couple to participate in, it can be daunting to go to someone in your community for help. It can be frightening just to consider sitting in front of someone, even your spouse, and talk about sex.
The goal in coaching is to create a safe space for couples, or individual spouses if necessary, to come and discuss, share their struggles, and work together to find solutions.
How much does it cost?
An initial hour long consultation costs you nothing but your time investing in your marriage. If you decide coaching is not right for you at this time, no problem, I’ll be here when you’re ready. In the meantime, you can work through the hundreds of posts we have on the topic of marriage, and if you haven’t already, I suggest subscribing to get new posts delivered to your inbox. Just pick a time slot below and the cost will be removed during checkout.
If you want to continue with coaching, sessions are $50 per hour-long session for a structured and focused call that will produce a plan of action as well as next steps to getting to the next level in your marriage.