Definition: Refers to the consensual practice within a sexual relationship where certain restraints or ties are used to enhance emotional connection and mutual trust.
I was skeptical. We’d used regular pillows for years. What could a wedge-shaped foam pillow do that a folded bed pillow couldn’t? And how do you justify spending $100 on something that doesn’t even vibrate? Turns out, quite a lot.
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During July and a bit of August, we ran a survey about people’s BDSM experiences. Depending on who you ask, it was either extensive or just dipping our toes into the topic. In the end, we received over 1,000 complete…
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Topics include: Does my wife know what I’m doing to her? I want to share orgasms with my husband What are your thoughts on BDSM? Is bondage a problem for me? Wife doesn’t like direct clitoral stimulation How do I…
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Topics Include: How do I hide my BDSM toys when I live at home with my parents? Does God value boys more than girls based on Leviticus 12:2-5? How do you handle the hormones from PCOS when you have a…
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Topics include: Husband is in jail Husband masturbates all the time Husband won’t quit porn Should Christians avoid Tantric Sex? Premature Ejaculation Bondage Resources Jock Itch Wife is not interested in sex Husband not interested in sex with wife Being…
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Answering questions from our readers. Questions include: Is doggy style demeaning? Does anal sex always cause bleeding? How to start talking about sex with a sensitive wife? Can you have sex with an unsaved spouse? How to handle a wife…
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This is the third and final part of our January anonymous questions Have A Question page. If you heard the previous two parts of these questions, I was trying to sort the questions by topic. Today we’re tackling some questions…
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Well, here we are, another month nearly gone, and another pile of questions from our anonymous Have A Question page begging for answers. In fact, I got so many in January, it took me nearly all month to write answers…
Here’s a question I know quite a few people struggle with. I know I have in the past. To be honest, the idea is still a bit tempting even though we don’t drink anymore. I often like to get my…
Every month, more than 1000 people come to this blog looking for information on how to introduce bondage into their marital bed or asking why it is that their spouse wants to be tied up. Some of that is due…
This question came in a couple of weeks ago from our anonymous Have A Question page: I love my spouse but what if i find myself wondering how it would be having sex with someone else. I lost my virginity…