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The monthly masturbation challenge
How do I make anal sex enjoyable for her?
Periods and vacations and sex
Aging and orgasm struggles
How do I know if I’m in right?
Does fantasizing about my husband make it a shared experience?
Condoms for handjobs
Resources for newlywed virgins
A few years ago, I was talking to a client during a coaching call, and we got off on a bit of a tangent about condom use. I explained a few ways that people tend to lower the protection of condoms when they use them. He was, well, shocked because he’d done many of them and had no idea that every time he did that, he was increasing the chance of conception.
And so, I’ve had this post idea on the back burner for quite a while until last week, when I mentioned in response to an anonymous question that if you don’t want kids, you shouldn’t have sex because even condoms and birth control are not perfectly effective when used correctly – and most people don’t know they’re not using them correctly.
When I posted that, one of our supporters asked if I could write that post, so here we go, because, well, my supporters do so much for me, I’m happy to help them out.
In this post, I’m only talking about the birth control effects, not the effect this could have on STDs/STIs. I’m also not going to address every birth control method, just the three I hear about the most. I’m also not going to be discussing natural family planning, but that is, at best, a delay method, not a method of birth control.
So, here are things you may be doing to mess up your birth control plans.
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Can I use a strap-on on my wife?
My husband’s ex-girlfriend
What’s a foreskin for?
I found a way to protect kids from sexual assault – reducing their risk by 56%. Want to know what it is? Anyone can do it.
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A husband’s changing orgasms
Can widowers masturbate
Husband won’t stop masturbation habit
Calling husband “daddy”
Feeling guilty about initiating sex
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My wife feels disrespected because I notice other women
Wife is hurt but not healing after years
Wife disconnects during foreplay
What can we do during fertile days
Oral sex questions
Husband doesn’t know our anniversary date
Should I be worried if I’m late?
In-laws over-share about sex
Fantasies for couples
Low-drive husband
Period sex
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Crossdressing
Reframing “duty” sex
Wife gets sex when she wants, but he doesn’t
Afraid to have more children
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Is it okay to take nude pictures and videos of each other?
Limon by Minna discount
Asexual wife?
Wife loves me, but isn’t in love with me
Wife isn’t interested in improving our sex life
Wish I married a bigger butt
Secretly feed her ejaculate
Husband says my vagina stinks and tastes bad
50-year-old wife refuses to have sex
Do we need a counselor?
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Threesome temptations
Aversion to receiving manual and oral sex
Penis size
Falling asleep during sexy time
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Phone sex
Oral sex to completion
Forgiveness and trust after betrayal
Are pictures and videos a problem?
Increasing female libido naturally
What is our duty?
Toxic wife
Abusive employer
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Does my wife know what I’m doing to her?
I want to share orgasms with my husband
What are your thoughts on BDSM?
Is bondage a problem for me?
Wife doesn’t like direct clitoral stimulation
How do I hold my wife accountable?