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Mutual Masturbation Survey Results

Mutual Masturbation Survey Results

A few weeks ago, we wrote about mutual masturbation and tacked on a survey at the end.  I had meant to write a more substantial post today on another topic, but to be honest, my brain is exhausted, and I just…

Oral Sex Survey Results

Oral Sex Survey Results

Update, August 2026 This survey is from 2013 and had 136 respondents. In 2026 we ran a much larger survey covering oral sex along with manual sex and mutual and solo masturbation, and got 1,058 complete responses. The directions below…

Reasons Not To Have Sex Survey Results

Reasons Not To Have Sex

This was a simple little survey that I created, originally to answer a simple question:  do husbands and wife’s agree on whether or not the choice to not have sex on a given night is mutual.  This question was raised…

The Lubricant Guide: a free guide for Christian couples

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A free guide for Christian couples · PDF, 29 pages The Lubricant Guide The right lubricant makes sex comfortable. The wrong one causes the burning and infections most wives blame on themselves. This free guide shows you which is which,…

Beyond Performance: a guide for Christian husbands

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A guide for Christian husbands · PDF, 22 pages Beyond Performance Your identity, your marriage bed, and what actually makes you a man. For husbands facing erection trouble, finishing too soon, size worries or the pressure to get it right…

Initiating Without Hurt: a guide for Christian couples

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A guide for Christian couples · PDF, 25 pages Initiating Without Hurt How to ask, how to say “not tonight”, and how to stay close either way. Built on more than 5,000 survey answers from married readers. Get the guide,…

Married With ADHD: a guide for Christian couples

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A guide for Christian couples · PDF, 26 pages Married With ADHD Time, chores, big feelings, rejection sensitivity, and what ADHD does in the bedroom. Written to both of you, whichever one of you has the diagnosis. Get the guide,…

Sex After Baby: a guide for Christian couples

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For Christian couples in the baby years · PDF, 25 pages Sex After Baby Healing, breastfeeding, exhaustion and desire: how to stay close through the newborn and baby years. Built on what 244 married readers told us. Get the guide,…