A few weeks ago, we wrote about mutual masturbation and tacked on a survey at the end. I had meant to write a more substantial post today on another topic, but to be honest, my brain is exhausted, and I just…
Mutual Masturbation Survey Results
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Going to bed naked survey results
Last week we wrote a post about going to bed naked, how it could improve your frequency of sex. I’ll be honest, it was a hypothesis. I had only a data-set of one marriage to go on (my own). So,…
Oral Sex Survey Results
Update, August 2026 This survey is from 2013 and had 136 respondents. In 2026 we ran a much larger survey covering oral sex along with manual sex and mutual and solo masturbation, and got 1,058 complete responses. The directions below…
Reasons Not To Have Sex Survey Results
This was a simple little survey that I created, originally to answer a simple question: do husbands and wife’s agree on whether or not the choice to not have sex on a given night is mutual. This question was raised…
Start Here
Start Here Blog Podcast Research Coaching Shop Have a question? Free Discovery Call Start here New here? Welcome. Let’s find you the right place to start. Uncovering Intimacy has been helping married Christian couples talk honestly about sex since 2012,…
How to Solve the Mental Load in a Christian Marriage
Social media says the mental load is a chore problem, and that if husbands just did their half, their exhausted wives would finally want them. But splitting the load in half does not lift it. Here is why the mental…
Homepage Preview: Proof, Front and Center
UNCOVERING INTIMACY MARRIED CHRISTIAN SEXUALITY Blog Podcast Research Coaching Store Have a question? Free Discovery Call Data-driven answers about married Christian sexuality since 2012 We don’t guess what Christian couples need. We ask them, by the thousands. Most advice about…
Married with ADHD Coaching
ADHD & Marriage · 1-on-1 Christian Coaching More patience hasn’t fixed it. When ADHD is in the marriage, you’ve been solving the wrong problem. One-on-one, faith-rooted coaching that helps couples finally understand how ADHD actually shapes their marriage, and rebuild…
Are most marriages struggling with their sex life?
If you’ve spent any time on this site, you might start to wonder if anyone actually has a good sex life. Problem after problem. Struggle after struggle. Mismatched drives, painful sex, dead bedrooms, porn addiction, resentment. It’s enough to make…
Why Don’t We Ever Talk About What We Actually Want in Bed?
Survey data from over 1,000 married Christians reveals the same pattern across every sexual activity we measured: couples who talk openly about sex are dramatically more satisfied than those who don’t. If you’ve been sitting on something unsaid, the silence…
Do All Husbands Want More Oral Sex
The short answer is no, however the numbers are striking enough that it’s worth digging into. Because if you’re a wife who feels like your husband is never quite satisfied with your sex life, or a husband who has never…