A few weeks ago, we wrote about mutual masturbation and tacked on a survey at the end. I had meant to write a more substantial post today on another topic, but to be honest, my brain is exhausted, and I just…
Mutual Masturbation Survey Results
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Going to bed naked survey results
Last week we wrote a post about going to bed naked, how it could improve your frequency of sex. I’ll be honest, it was a hypothesis. I had only a data-set of one marriage to go on (my own). So,…
Oral Sex Survey Results
Update, August 2026 This survey is from 2013 and had 136 respondents. In 2026 we ran a much larger survey covering oral sex along with manual sex and mutual and solo masturbation, and got 1,058 complete responses. The directions below…
Reasons Not To Have Sex Survey Results
This was a simple little survey that I created, originally to answer a simple question: do husbands and wife’s agree on whether or not the choice to not have sex on a given night is mutual. This question was raised…
Newlywed Coaching
Newlywed Coaching · The first year of marriage The first year sets patterns that run for decades. Give it a plan. How you fight, spend, pray and make love is still being decided in year one. These are 48 weekly…
Common Questions
Start Here Blog Podcast Research Coaching Shop Have a question? Free Discovery Call Common questions The questions married Christians ask us most Since 2017, readers have sent in more than 1,100 anonymous questions. These are the ones that come up…
Why does my husband have a lower sex drive than me?
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About one marriage in five has the husband as the lower-drive spouse. What 3,358 survey responses say about why, and whether he is hiding a porn habit.
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Start Here Blog Podcast Research Coaching Shop Have a question? Free Discovery Call Start here New here? Welcome. Let’s find you the right place to start. Uncovering Intimacy has been helping married Christian couples talk honestly about sex since 2012,…
How to Solve the Mental Load in a Christian Marriage
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Social media says the mental load is a chore problem, and that if husbands just did their half, their exhausted wives would finally want them. But splitting the load in half does not lift it. Here is why the mental…