Back in February, I got a message from Sarah and Jeff Harris (actually the email was from Jeff) telling me they loved my blog (yay!), and that they had written a book “Do It Better – Twelve Sexual Routines and Principles You Wish You Knew“, and
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How many husbands actually like giving oral sex?
Last week, I posted an anonymous question where someone asked how many wives actually like giving oral sex. In the comments, people wanted to know how many husbands actually like giving oral sex. So, I guess this isn’t technically considered an anonymous question, but more
How many wives actually like giving oral sex?
I don’t remember when I got this question. Honestly, I don’t even know how I got it. Could have been an email, or through our anonymous Have A Question page, or on a survey comment. But, I keep a list of all the questions I
SWM022: Does my spouse find me unattractive
A couple of years ago I got a message from a reader who was beside herself with unfounded fears that her husband was no longer attracted to her. She hadn’t asked him. She had no indication that he wasn’t, but she had this deep seated fear that he wasn’t.
How do you get over the gross factor?
This question came in over a week ago from our anonymous Have A Question page: My husband would like me to massage his prostate. There is a gross factor for me but I love him and would love to make him happy! How do I
How do you get past the awkwardness of resuming sex after a difficult pregnancy?
Here’s a question I received yesterday from our anonymous Have A Question page: My husband and I used to have sex ALL the time. It was like we could never keep our hands off each other. We were adventurous, interested in trying new things in
What have we done to women’s sex drives?
Those of you who read my blog posts, or have heard me speak, might have heard me drop my belief that the Bible was written with the assumption that women had the higher sex drive, or at least were evenly matched. Now, in our culture, this
Learn how to give a sensual massage for Valentine’s Day
I’ve written about the benefits of massaging my wife in past posts, like “Why don’t I give my wife more massages” and “Are you ready for Mother’s Day“. We also saw from our survey on wives orgasm experiences that a lot of spouses suggested giving a
Why masturbation is a problem, whether you’re married or single
There were some people who were … let’s say disgruntled … by my podcast episode last week where I shared my views on solo masturbation. Many argued that there’s no reason single people can’t masturbate. So, I thought I’d write a post in response and
Book Review: 25 questions you’re afraid to ask about love, sex and intimacy
Back in November, I was sent a copy of the book 25 questions you’re afraid to ask about love, sex and intimacy by Dr Juli Slattery to review. If you recall (for those who have been around for a while), I reviewed her last book,
Oral sex and yeast infections
I received this question a few days ago on Facebook, and thought it would make a good post, because I’m sure others have similar questions. Christmas night, after several days of no sex because of the craziness of the holiday, my Dear Wife initiated, but