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Is masturbation for medical reasons okay?

I received this question a couple of days ago through our anonymous Have A Question page and wanted to tackle it quickly as it seemed time sensitive. In the case of medical necessary, is masturbation and pornography okay?Backstory: We’re struggling…

Curious about being with someone else

This question came in a couple of weeks ago from our anonymous Have A Question page: I love my spouse but what if i find myself wondering how it would be having sex with someone else. I lost my virginity…

I miss porn

Some days I miss porn.  Isn’t that sick?  It’s true though.  And I think a lot of people who have quit porn miss it from time to time. Same goes for masturbating.  And often the two are tied together, but…

SWM012: Why do married men masturbate?

SWM 012

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Can I write erotica for my husband and I?

This question came in on our Have A Question page yesterday: I am a fanfiction writer, and I wrote a couple of erotica chapters, mostly between monogamous couples. I think prayer made me realized it was not the best idea, so…

Can you divorce a spouse because of porn use?

This question came up in a discussion with some readers: If a spouse, after given an ultimatum about quitting porn, chooses the porn, is it okay to divorce them?  The questioner basically gave the answer I would, but I wanted…

Porn can cause depression, even after you quit

I received this question from our Have A Question page a few days ago: My husband used to be addicted to watching pornography, for over a decade. It was a struggle in our marriage for a long time, but he…

How NOT to quit porn

Porn has become almost ubiquitous in our society, it’s everywhere, just behind the scenes.  An estimated 50% of Christian men struggle with porn addiction at some point in their life (including pastors), and the last number I heard for women…