Just so everyone is on the same page: the term “Sexual Awakening” is used in many Christian Marriage communities to describe a point where a spouse who has been refusing (limiting sex in the relationship), or one who just has an extremely low (or no)
Category Archives: Physical Intimacy
Why Don’t I Give My Wife More Massages?
I know that if I want more sex, all I have to do is give more massages, not as a trade, but because it puts my wife in the mood. So, why don’t I do it?
How Sex Impacts the Rest of My Life
My wife got bronchitis last month, so, our sex life has not been a priority. Here’s what I noticed about how it impacted the rest of my life.
What Happened To Sex When Christianity Split From Judaism?
In Jewish law, sex is not considered shameful, sinful or obscene. So, how did Christianity mess this up? What happened when we split?
What Is Your Goal?
I often read, in forums and comments, complaints from one spouse or another who isn’t getting what they want out of sex. Sometimes it has to do with a very simple problem of the spouses not knowing each other’s goals in a sexual encounter (or all of them).
What is Christian Porn?
Today we’re going to talk about Christian porn and whether such a thing actually exists. I do a lot of research about sexuality and theology. Those are the two biggest areas of research in my life. It’s no surprise, then, that I eventually started a blog
Is There A Good Way To Tell Your Husband “No Sex Tonight”?
Wondering how to tell your husband “no sex tonight” without hurting his feeling? Is it even possible? The answer is simple, but the explanation is longer.
What If Your Spouse Doesn’t Think Watching Arousing Scenes Is A Problem?
If you knew your spouse was deliberately looking at stuff to get aroused but goes to you for sex, would you refuse them?
Why Does My Husband Want Sex In The Morning?
Why is it that men like sex in the morning? It drives a lot of women absolutely crazy because they wake up in the morning feeling groggy, haven’t done their makeup, they have bed-head, etc., etc., basically, not feeling fully confident in themselves as a sexual being.
My Husband Admitted To Masturbating, How Do I Get Over The Hurt?
If your husband admitted to masturbating, how do you deal with that betrayal? Do you have a right to be angry or hurt? How do you move forward?
What Do I Do If I Get Turned On By Someone/Something Other Than My Spouse?
What do you do if you’re watching a movie, and suddenly there is a sex scene and you get aroused? What’s the proper response?