Category Archives: Physical Intimacy


Clitoral Slapping

Alright, here’s a technique for those who are a bit more adventurous in the bedroom.  Just as a warning to the husbands: DO NOT TRY THIS WITHOUT DISCUSSING IT WITH YOUR WIFE FIRST.  I’ll admit, I was a bit hesitant to bring it up with

Is it still adultery if you have permission?

Christina and I are still out of the country, enjoying some relaxation after our mission trip, but I received an email and couldn’t hold off responding to it. The question I received through our Have A Question page is this: My husband would like to

Is Biblical advice for marriage outdated?

This post is a response to an anonymous question I received two days ago through our Have a Question page.  This person asks: If marriage is not the same today as it was in the bible, are the guidelines for sex still in marriage still

Wives’ Orgasm Experiences Infographic

Every survey we run, I get a certain question in the comments.  It comes in different ways.  How can I orgasm, how can I get my wife to orgasm, why can’t I orgasm, what do other wives do to orgasm, what do husbands do to their

Wives and their orgasm experiences

While this survey is specifically designed to find answers for women, I’ve designed the survey so that husbands can answer the questions too. I get a few people every month asking how they can orgasm, if they are women, or, if they are men, how to

Work and school arrangements affect sex

So, this past week we ran a survey.  Basically I was curious about how different working combinations in a marriage play out in terms of sexual frequency.  Again, as always not that sex is the end all and be all of marriage, or that frequency

Female Ejaculation / Squirting / Gushing Survey Results

I’m guessing that this is the most controversial survey we have done to date.  What makes me say that?  Well, first off, we had the lowest number of respondents in a long time.  Secondly…people told us that it was.  In fact, one of the comments we received

Squirting / Female Ejaculation Survey

In our latest survey (on anal sex), I asked if there were any topics people would like to see a survey on.  I got quite a few requests on the topic of female ejaculation (aka ‘squirting’).  Seriously … like a half a dozen.  And if

Anonymous Question: My wife wants to be gagged

Every so often, I get an anonymous question from a reader, and sometimes I write a post (like Should Christians mix alcohol and sex?) in response.  Sometimes I conduct a survey, then write a post in response (like Does my husband still find me attractive).

Is anal sex a sin?

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Last week I posted the survey results of our anal sex and anal play survey, and some of the responses and comments indicated that there were moral objections to anal intercourse.  As well, some people explicitly asked for a post discussing the biblical stance on anal sex,