Category Archives: Sex


Why is it important for Christians to marry Christians?

I get emails weekly from readers who, sadly, are in marriages with non-Christians, while they themselves are believers.  Some find themselves in this situations due to a loss of faith by their spouse, who used to believe, but far more often, it’s because they have

Can I write erotica for my husband and I?

This question came in on our Have A Question page yesterday: I am a fanfiction writer, and I wrote a couple of erotica chapters, mostly between monogamous couples. I think prayer made me realized it was not the best idea, so I took them back from

When is sex outside of marriage permitted?

I found this question in my list of drafts that I hadn’t tackled yet, so here we go: My question is this, when circumstances are exceptional (impossible), is sex outside of marriage ok? In short, my situation is this – firstly, my boyfriend and I

Can you divorce a spouse because of porn use?

This question came up in a discussion with some readers: If a spouse, after given an ultimatum about quitting porn, chooses the porn, is it okay to divorce them?  The questioner basically gave the answer I would, but I wanted to expand a bit on

Is it a sin to lust after your wife?

I received this through our Have A Question page where readers submit anonymous questions: Is it a sin to lust after your wife.  The Bible says to not covet your neighbors wife.   But is it wrong to covet your own wife.   to look longingly at her

Adult Nursing Relationships

Adult Nursing Relationships - all the questions you're too embarrassed to ask

I’ve been putting off this post for a long time, but after writing about why men are breast obsessed, it seemed an opportune time to bring it up.  So, today we’re going to talk about Adult Nursing Relationships, also known as ANRs, and more specifically,

Why are men obsessed with breasts?

This week Christina asked me why I act differently when she’s changing, particularly when she’s topless.  I’m sure most wives at some point wonder, why it is that their husbands are so obsessed with their breasts.  I know for myself, if my wife’s shirt and

Are you willing to hold people accountable to their vows?

I was talking with a friend this week about a variety of subjects, and in the course of our discussing, I said that I think we, as Christians, are failing in our duties to our fellow believers, particularly when it comes to marriages. We, in

Is it sinful for a woman to wear pants?

This week I saw this question in my moderation queue: I want to ask about clothing, about woman not wearing what belongs to a man. I need explanation on that because i feel deut 22 vs 5 is misunderstood. That looked like a fun topic,