I received this question from our anonymous Have A Question page about a week ago: My wife and I are committed Christians, but have not yet been able to go all the way in our marriage. I believe that I should wait, but getting the
Category Archives: Sex
Can you have sex during your period?
We’re currently running a survey on period sex (if you haven’t filled it out, please do so), and the responses have been fascinating. It’s fun to skim through the comments people have written to see the wide variety of opinions and practices. One that comes up
Period Sex Survey
A while ago, I received a question about sex during menstruation from our anonymous Have A Question page: How many couples have sex while the wife is on her period? My husband and I have been married for almost 8 years. The idea of having
Do Christians shave their pubic hair?
For those of you who have filled out the survey (and if you didn’t, you still can here), you know that one of the reasons I ran the survey was because someone made the comment: [My wife] claims that NO ONE does that every week,
What do you do if sex is painful?
Yesterday I wrote a post dealing with a question I’d received from our anonymous Have A Question page. The post was on whether or not a marriage can survive without sex. But, there was another question within the one comment that I wanted to address,
Can a marriage survive without sex?
I received this question from our anonymous Have A Question page about a week ago: Can a Christian marriage survive without it ever once being consummated? My wife and I had pain issues in every attempt to consummate our relationship. We stopped trying altogether about
Sex when the kids are home
I received this question about a week ago from our anonymous Have A Question page: For the longest time I have been the low drive spouse but as my heart and mind changes in becoming the higher drive spouse. Well my husband is getting older
Should I leave to find happiness?
I received this question about a week ago from our anonymous Have A Question page: Hello Jay, a friend put me on to your site awhile ago. I just signed up for daily posts this week. The second article I read was about the 11%
How do you forgive an abuser?
I received this question this weekend from our anonymous Have A Question page: My wife as had a brother commit incest sexual touching and masturbation on her and other in her family from around 6-9 year old. She has strugle with sex and being touch since
On the topic of edging
I received this question last night from our Have A Question page: My wife is curious about “edging”, what is it? Is there a benefit for this? Edging is the practice of getting your spouse right up to the “edge” of having an orgasm, without
Is it unreasonable to expect my spouse to remove their pubic hair?
Some of you may recognize this question from our Personal Grooming Survey (go fill it out if you haven’t already): Is it unreasonable for me (husband) to expect my wife to continue to remove pubic hair, like she did when we were dating? We’ve been married