Category Archives: Resources


Personal Grooming Survey

I received a question about a week ago regarding personal grooming, and in the question they stated: [My wife] claims that NO ONE does that every week, month or more than once or twice a year… For those of you who have been around here

Learn how to give a sensual massage for Valentine’s Day

I’ve written about the benefits of massaging my wife in past posts, like “Why don’t I give my wife more massages” and “Are you ready for Mother’s Day“.  We also saw from our survey on wives orgasm experiences that a lot of spouses suggested giving a

Book Review: Keep Your Love On

Way back in September, a publicist contacted me in regards to the book Keep Your Love On! by Danny Silk.  They wanted to know if I was interested in a book on relationships written by a pastor, and, if I liked it, could I review

Truth or Dare for the married couple

Remember playing Truth or Dare as a teenager?  If not, let me explain.  Truth or dare is a simple game where your fellow gamer requests a “Truth” or a “Dare”, and then you proceed to form a question, or a dare, to put to them.

What is a good first “adult” toy?

What is a good first "adult" toy

Well, it’s the Christmas season again, and apparently a lot of people are thinking about buying some “adult” toys for presents (I’m going to assume for their spouse).  The last few surveys (which were a while ago, we really need to run another one), I’ve

What do you recommend for lubricant?

Here’s another one from our Have A Question page that I’ve had in my inbox for a while: Can you make a recommendation for massage oils or lotions? Is there any that double as lubricant? Are there any that don’t leave oily grease marks on

Survey on prayer and sex

After our first week’s marriage challenge, I got some really encouraging feedback from spouses saying that their marriage had found a new level of intimacy, that they’re feeling more connected, that their spouses are being more considerate, more loving. So, I’m curious just how much

Sexual Positions Survey Results

At the request of a few readers, I ran a survey a week and a bit ago asking people what their favorite positions were during sex.  And I decided to hold out doing the analysis until we hit 500 respondents.  That seemed to work, because we