Topics include:
Exhibitionism
No sex in 4 months
Should I disclose previous porn struggles to fiancee
Other resources
What qualifies as mutual masturbation
Need rougher sex to orgasm
Category Archives: Reader’s Questions
SWM 141 – AQ August 2024 – Transactional sex, no sex due to birth, lube recommendations and more
Topics include:
Wife trades chores for sex
How to handle no sex due to birth
Water-based lube that doesn’t cause UTIs
Guy’s relationships always end in affairs
Post-childbirth and penis size preferences
Wife is a gatekeeper
SWM 140 – AQ – July 2024 – A wife can’t decide if she loves him, someone calls me a Pharisee, positions, outdoor sex and more
Topics include:
Wife’s love dependent on mood
Why don’t you direct people to God?
Can’t seem to manage other positions
Wife rejects exploration and being seen
Nervous about sex outdoors
Crossdressing rehash
SWM 136 – AQ – Wife is mean to kids, another can’t decide if she loves him, and careful who you let teach
Topics Include:
Wife thinks she has to be mean to our children
Golden showers (again)
Wife can’t decide if she loves me or not
Just because you’re experienced, doesn’t mean you’re qualified
SWM 134 – AQ – Piercings, how not to start a fight, nude photos, nude beaches and more
Topics include:
How often should a healthy man need sex?
Clitoral piercing
How do we start talking about sex without fighting?
Is it good to masturbate to stay in a sexless marriage?
Professional nude photos with a male photographer
Newly married wife only interested in the same sexual routine
Becoming a Christian didn’t fix my same-sex attraction
Nude beaches
How to get better at rejection
Struggling with orgasm
SWM 132 – Breast implants and body image issues
Answering a question from a reader regarding getting breast augmentation due to a lack of self confidence.
SWM 129 – AQ – Swingers, chastity devices, sex headaches, uncomfortable conversations, flavoured lubes and more
Topics include:
Can Christians be swingers?
Chastity devices
Sex and orgasm headaches
Wife only wants one oral sex position, which he hates
Worried about stamina
Trying to spice things up
SWM 127 – AQ – Not interested in sex, are men infatuated with ejaculate and many more questions
Topics include:
Why am I not interested in sexy any more after having a baby?
How do I get my wife to rest without guilt?
Why does my wife dismiss my advice when she asks for it?
How do I get my wife engaged in sexual growth?
Are men infatuated with their ejaculate?
SWM 123 – AQ – Enjoying anal sex, periods and vacation, aging and orgasms, fantasizing, and condoms for handjobs
Topics include:
The monthly masturbation challenge
How do I make anal sex enjoyable for her?
Periods and vacations and sex
Aging and orgasm struggles
How do I know if I’m in right?
Does fantasizing about my husband make it a shared experience?
Condoms for handjobs
Resources for newlywed virgins
SWM 119 – Vibrators & dildos, roleplay, talking to your kids about sex, and more
Topics include:
How do you use a vibrator?
Is roleplaying marriage a sin?
Will a dildo make me unsatisfied with my husband?
Wife makes excuses about everything
When to start talking to your kids about sex?
Wife caught me watching porn
Is masturbation without porn a sin?
SWM 115 – Strapons, Exes and Foreskins
Topics include:
Can I use a strap-on on my wife?
My husband’s ex-girlfriend
What’s a foreskin for?