Category Archives: About Us


Why can’t I be happy with myself

Why can't I be happy with myself-

Friday night, Jay challenged me to say “I’m happy with the progress I’ve made” out loud, to myself.  Would you have a hard time saying that out loud? Even to yourself?  I did. It was incredibly difficult. It took a conversation that lasted a couple

How we kick off our New Year

How we kick off our New Year

I like it when the New Year turns over. I like the idea of a fresh start, having some artificial momentum to springboard from. I like being able to make massive changes all in the name of “New Year’s Resolutions”. So, I thought I’d share

An update on our situation

So, I sat down to write a post this morning on my morning commute, as it my habit, and just couldn’t get into anything.  The truth is, I’m pre-occupied.  So, I thought I’d write a little post just to share what’s going on in our

Does your spouse get the “best” you?

As many of my readers know, I recently took a new job.  The work is fantastic.  The pay is more than adequate.  I’m respected, and I feel, and am told, that I’m a real asset to the company.  Not only that, but it gives me

The Sex Within Marriage Manifesto

The topic of sex within marriage within the Christian community is an oddity.  The reactions to bringing up the topic are quite varied:  embarrassment, shame, fear, anger, interest, inquisitiveness, looking for help, looking to share a burden, wanting to know their normal.  Often many of

Helping to support our ministry survey (with giveaway!)

I’ve been encouraged by the response from our 2016 goals post.  One such response was from one of our readers who drafted a survey to help plan future methods of reaching more people.  So, I tweaked it a bit and built a proper survey out of

Our plans for 2016

Well, it’s 2016 now, and that means a new year, and new goals and ambitions for our ministry.  I have some ideas, and I thought I’d write a quick post to let everyone know what I’m thinking. Because this year I shifted some things about

SWM001: Welcome to the Sex Within Marriage Podcast

Podcast: Play in new window | Download | EmbedSubscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music | Android | iHeartRadio | Podchaser | Email | TuneIn | Deezer | RSS | More Well, my regular readers have been asking for a podcast

An update on what’s going on at SWM

Well, we’ve been busy at SexWithinMarriage.com.  I know, it doesn’t always look like it, because I haven’t been writing as many posts, and I’m sorry for that. I thought I’d write a quick post just to let you know what’s going on, because, honestly, I’m

Making help more affordable

I thought I’d let you guys know of a change over at Anonymous Marriage Coaching (my coaching practice).  Since I started coaching I’ve had the pleasure of helping a lot of couples through coaching, and that’s been an awesome experience.  However, I’ve also talked to