All posts by Jay Dee

Now, it could be argued that being married gives you the right to have sex.  1 Corinthians 7:5 would support this claim, and I think it’s perfectly reasonable to expect, when you get married, that sex is on the table (chair, rug by the fire,

I get emails weekly from readers who, sadly, are in marriages with non-Christians, while they themselves are believers.  Some find themselves in this situations due to a loss of faith by their spouse, who used to believe, but far more often, it’s because they have

This question came in on our Have A Question page yesterday: I am a fanfiction writer, and I wrote a couple of erotica chapters, mostly between monogamous couples. I think prayer made me realized it was not the best idea, so I took them back from

I found this question in my list of drafts that I hadn’t tackled yet, so here we go: My question is this, when circumstances are exceptional (impossible), is sex outside of marriage ok? In short, my situation is this – firstly, my boyfriend and I

This question came up in a discussion with some readers: If a spouse, after given an ultimatum about quitting porn, chooses the porn, is it okay to divorce them?  The questioner basically gave the answer I would, but I wanted to expand a bit on

I received this through our Have A Question page where readers submit anonymous questions: Is it a sin to lust after your wife.  The Bible says to not covet your neighbors wife.   But is it wrong to covet your own wife.   to look longingly at her

Here’s another question I received through our Have A Question page for those who have questions but want to ask them anonymously. This is more a question of curiosity.  What do you think about breath play? science, appropriateness etc…