Jay Dee, Author at Uncovering Intimacy

How do I deal with temptation if my spouse is a sexual refuser?

Another question from our Have A Question page. Unfortunately, I don’t have any idea what post he read just before asking, but still, I think we can try to answer the question without that. Here we go: I agree with you completely on all points.

SWM006: The problem with breastfeeding

How can I help my wife understand that she’s a sexual being too?

Here’s a question I received nearly a couple weeks ago, and I’m trying to catch up on my email, so here we go: How can I help my wife understand that she’s a sexual being too? My wife enjoys sex (which happens about 1-2 times

How do we deal with separation due to work?

I received this anonymous question through our Have A Question page, and I’m writing the entire post on my phone, a first for me, so excuse any typos or bad auto corrects. So my husband is away on business for the next month (this is

SWM005: Why your husband can’t tell you what he needs

SWM004: Why your wife can’t tell you what she wants

SWM003: Is sex a need or a want?

SWM002: Getting rid of veto power in the bedroom

SWM001: Welcome to the Sex Within Marriage Podcast

Learning to Talk R.I.T.E.

Last night I was at a church leadership meeting, and we were given an except from a book called Becoming a Mission-Driven Church, and it had an acronym it in: R.I.T.E. that nicely encapsulated a lot of the communication ideas I’ve written about on this

Why does sex hurt?

I got this question last night: On my wedding night I lost my virginity to my husband. I went on my honeymoon the following week and my husband attempted to have sex once and it lasted like a couple mins because it hurt me .