This question came in a couple of weeks ago from our anonymous Have A Question page: I love my spouse but what if i find myself wondering how it would be having sex with someone else. I lost my virginity…
Curious about being with someone else
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Can’t keep his penis in while trying other positions
I received this question yesterday from our anonymous Have A Question page I really don’t think you have tacked this before as I have looked, but my question is about different sex positions. My husband and I have been married…
Is that how you want your spouse to see you?
I think a lot of spouses have a bad habit of talking bad about themselves. Women in particular are generally very well know for criticizing their appearance. Most men don’t do this as much. Men, if they verbalize this, tend…
When marriage is like a roller coaster
Sometimes marriage is like a rollercoaster. This is especially the case during people when you are growing. When dealing with big changes, like children, or trying to learn communication, dealing with porn or adultery, or when the marriage is unbalanced…
Confidence is sexy
I caused a bit of a stir yesterday with my post Romance is the death of sexual attraction. This is sort of a part two, but not the part two I think a lot of people were expecting. In short,…
Romance is the death of sexual attraction
I was writing another post, and suddenly this thought struck me, so I put it on hold and decided to tackle it. I think romance may be the death of sexual attraction. My generation, as well as one or two…
Is sex work?
Is sex work for you? What about your spouse? Do you know? Now, for me, the answer is a hands down “No”. I mean, I work hard during sex, and my muscles get tired, I get sweaty and I’m very…
Does your spouse have permission to arouse you?
I get a lot of emails from husbands and wives who get rejected for sex frequently. They often want to know how to initiate better, how to arouse their spouse, how to turn them on and get them interested in…
Is sex your drug of choice?
I’ve had a bit of a rough month, personally. Nothing really changed, I just got really tired of the long commute, lack of sleep, high stress and lower pay of my new job, loss of autonomy, and on and on.…
What do you need from me
I’m a solution provider. It’s just how I’m built. The majority of my job is finding solutions to business problems. Usually it’s a technological solution, but not always. Some days I do more management consulting than IT consulting. But, it’s not just…
Do men like nipple play?
Well, it’s the end of another week, and so there’s just enough time for one more question. I received this one yesterday from our anonymous Have A Question page: My question is about nipple play. I am a 70+ male,…