Do you ever wish someone had handed you a book when you got married to get you started on the right footing? Or one that would have helped in saving your marriage from a lot of the struggles you’ve experienced as a couple? You know,
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Is it sinful for widows to masturbate?
How do you answer the question of whether or not it’s okay for widows to masturbate? Well, I got asked this very question back in August and I’ll admit, I’ve been hesitant to answer it. Here’s the comment from our Are sex toys allowed in
10 steps to better orgasms for wives
Way back in 2014, someone asked in our Wives’ Orgasm Experiences survey how to have better orgasms for women: Beyond how to achieve orgasm, I’d like to hear from other wives on how they have gotten their orgasms stronger or more complete. I often feel
How can I encourage my spouse to do something new sexually?
I regularly have someone ask me how they can encourage their spouse to do something new sexually. For example, here’s a question from our Have A Question page: How can a husband encourage his wife to deep throat and swallow his semen without seaming demanding or better
We-Vibe Sync – Product Review
A couple of weeks ago I received a We-Vibe Sync in the mail. I absolutely love the We-Vibe V1 we bought quite a few years ago and was looking forward to the updated version. We-Vibe promised I wouldn’t be disappointed and they were right. About
How do I deal with same-sex attraction as a Christian?
There are a lot of Christians dealing with same-sex attraction. I think most of them don’t really know how to handle it. It’s no wonder they don’t either. We send a lot of confusing messages around in the Christian community about sexuality, especially when it’s
Is it okay to tease other people?
I received this question the other day from our Have A Question page regarding turning on someone else other than your spouse: My wife and I have been married for 12 year’s,I have realized that I enjoy my wife wearing top’s that she can expose
Creative Conversation Starters for couples – Book Review
Creative Conversation Starters for couples – 100+ prompts to kick start your communication – Book ReviewCreative Conversation Starters for couples – 100+ prompts to kick start your communication – Book ReviewKeelie and Austin Reason of LoveHopeAdventure.com sent me a book of conversation starters a while
Putting the kids first will destroy your marriage
I get a fair number of emails where one spouse is putting the kids first in the marriage. Most often it’s the wife, but I have had a few emails from wives where it’s the other way around. Putting the kids first can show itself in a
Does losing weight improve your sex life?
Way back in March, someone asked the question, “How does being overweight affect the quality of your sex life?” on our Have A Question page. So, I asked who wanted to be involved in a long-term study to see if there’s a connection between getting fit
Don’t say yuck about food (Don’t say “I hate my body”)
We have a rule in our house. You don’t say “yuck” about food. We created this rule for our children, because with five of them, invariably one of them isn’t interested in what we made for supper. You put the food down, and they push