About a year ago, a newer company called MysteryVibe offered to send me their newest product. Actually, it was their first product. The Crescendo which has been dubbed “The world’s most advanced vibrator”. Now, I’m fairly picky about the toys I’ll accept. For one, I
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Anonymous Questions – Oct 10, 2018
It’s been almost two months since I answered anonymous questions, so I thought I’d catch up. For those who are new to the site, these questions are all gathered from our anonymous Have A Question page. If you have a question that you’d like answered,
Post-Sex Dynamics and Routines Survey Results
A couple of months ago, I posted a survey asking some questions about sexual drives, refractory periods and post-sex routines. I was hoping we could get 1,000 responses this time. Well, we made it! So, here’s my analysis of the responses, for your reading pleasure
Are you sabotaging your sex life like I do?
I’ve spent the last few years trying to get better insight into the mind of a spouse who desires less sex. Why? Because I’m married to one, and one of my goals in life is to make her feel known and loved. Unfortunately, the more
Anonymous Questions – Aug 14, 2018
It’s been about a month since our last Anonymous Questions posting, so I thought I’d catch up, as I have a couple of questions that I haven’t yet answered. For those who are new to the site, these questions are all gathered from our anonymous
Have you’ve broken your wedding vows?
In our culture, when we say someone “broke their vows”, we automatically jump to thinking they had an affair or got divorced. But I think many of us are breaking our vows daily. What did you promise at your wedding? Now, I don’t know exactly,
Post-sex dynamic and routines survey
Well, it’s time for another survey. I’ve received a few questions (including one from Keelie over at LoveHopeAdventure.com), that I thought I could roll into a survey. We’re asking questions about what happens after sex, refractory periods, and the like. We appreciate you being willing
How to stop feeling hurt so often
My spouse is in a unique position to hurt me more deeply and more often than anyone else, simply by being in an intimate (not just physically) relationship with me. She knows how to push my buttons better and harder than anyone else, and I
Anonymous Questions – July 5, 2018
It’s amazing how a month can just fly right by. I just realized I haven’t done one of these since May. So, it’s about time we catch up. Here are the anonymous questions we’ve received lately from our Have A Question page. Question 1: Grooming
SWM033 – Sermon – Sex: An uncomfortable topic we need to discuss
This podcast episode is a sermon I wrote and delivered in my home church while the pastors were away and I was invited to preach. I’m not a pastor myself, but occasionally I am asked to step in while they are away. The title I chose was “Sex: an uncomfortable topic we need to discuss”, and it had a few people upset when they came to church and saw it in the bulletin. Particularly since there was no children’s ministry that week. But, afterwards, nearly everyone seemed content with what I had said and how I had delivered it.
Some people asked if I would share the sermon here, so you can find the audio, as well as my sermon notes here.
Anonymous Questions – May 30, 2018
Well, it hasn’t quite been a week, but I wanted to get our weekly email out because of an announcement (if you missed it, subscribe to make sure you don’t miss any more). In the mean time, I also have two anonymous questions from our