For the last month or so, we’ve had a survey open about how you prefer to have your spouse initiate sex. If you never got a chance, you can fill it out here. I do sometimes delve into old surveys…
What’s the best way to initiate sex?
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SWM 059 – Orgasm without ejaculation, gagging during oral sex, hiding ED medication, and prostate stimulation
SWM 059
Answering questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Topics include: Wife keeps falling asleep during sex Is it possible for women to orgasm without cumming? Wife wants bigger toys How do I handle my wife screaming at me? Clone-a-willy…
SWM 058 – When he prefers masturbation to sex, tantric sex, premature ejaculation, and bondage resources
SWM 058
Topics include: Husband is in jail Husband masturbates all the time Husband won’t quit porn Should Christians avoid Tantric Sex? Premature Ejaculation Bondage Resources Jock Itch Wife is not interested in sex Husband not interested in sex with wife Being…
SWM 057 – Responsive desire and initiating, sex after an affair, rougher sex, and touching yourself during intercourse
SWM 057
Topics Include: How to get more intimate nights with my wife Can I have sex with my ex-husband? Does my husband want kinky sex? Is it okay to want more passionate sex? What happens when you die? – what about…
What do couples do when one wants sex and the other doesn’t?
The difference in sexual desire between a husband and a wife is one of those universal conflicts. I think just about every marriage deals with it at some point. If yours hasn’t yet – well congratulations newlyweds! Just because it’s…
Last minute gift ideas for Father’s Day
Anyone else feel like Father’s Day sort of sneaked up on them? I mean, Mother’s Day seems to have a lot of ads, I feel like there was lots of warning. But Father’s Day? I mean, I get flyers to the…
SWM 056 – How To Feel Connected During Sex
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What does it mean to feel “connected” during sex. For many spouses, when their husband or wife says “I don’t feel connected during sex”, they get quite confused. They’re thinking “I am literally inside of you/you are literally inside of…
SWM 055 – When his penis keeps slipping out, alcohol and sex, and a wife who never dresses up for you
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Topics include: Is fingering fornication? Is it wrong to fulfill my wife’s fantasy of having a gang-bang? How to tell my husband sex is bad when he drinks? Husband’s penis keeps falling out during sex Wife doesn’t want to dress…
SWM 054 – Anal sex without lube, “team sex”, a husband who cannot be emotionally intimate, and body piercings
Anonymous questions from February 2020. Topics include: How can I become more comfortable masturbating? Why wouldn’t he use lube? How to have “team sex” (not what you think) Husband can’t be emotionally intimate or trust me Meta discussion about piercings How…
What happens when you die?
Question from a reader: So, I was listening to one of your podcasts, I don’t remember which one but you were talking about souls and what happens after death. You said that nothing happens after death until Jesus comes back.…
SWM 053 – Responsive desire and duty sex, setbacks during foreplay, and the long-term effects of vibrators
Anonymous questions from December 2019 and January 2020 Topics Include: Gang bang fantasy How to make sex not feel like an obligation How to get past sebacks during foreplay Wife needs to feel “dirty” to orgasm A warning about “Boundaries”…