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A plan is not a plan unless it is confirmed

A plan is not a plan unless it is confirmed

Ever had what you thought was the plan fall apart because your spouse didn’t know that was the plan?  Or vice-versa?  I have!  And I don’t think I’m alone, especially after reading this comment yesterday: My wife and I are on different planets as far

Is your marriage prepared to survive the holidays?

Is your marriage prepared to survive the holidays?

Do you have a plan to survive the holidays?  Between Christmas and New Year’s, there is this perfect storm for couples that many stumble into every year. It only comes up once a year, so often we’re caught unprepared and then blindsided by it.  Then,

Last Minute Sexy Christmas Gifts

Last minute sexy Christmas gifts

I had someone ask about sexy Christmas gifts they can get their spouse.  So, here’s a very quick run through of some things that I think you could still manage to get by Christmas. 1. Books ($10 and under) Amazon will let you know if

How do you stop sinful behaviours- Part 2

How do you stop sinful behaviours? – Part 2

Last week I wrote a post about how to stop sinful behaviours.  In truth, I only gave half the answer. I wrote about recognizing how wretched we are and continuously dying to self.  I focused on that because as Christians, we tend to skip that

Eva - The strange but effective sex toy

Eva – A strange but effective sex toy

I’ll admit, the Eva is the strangest sex toy we own.  I mean, it doesn’t look like any other toy I have.  Almost every other one, it’s fairly obvious what you do with it. This one needs some explaining, but when you get it, you

4 sex positions made easier by the Liberator Wedge

4 sex positions made easier by the Liberator Wedge

A few weeks ago, I posted an unboxing of my new Liberator Black Label Wedge.  Sorry, I had technical problems and the audio didn’t work.  I’ll admit when I learned about the Liberator wedge, I wasn’t sure how useful it would be. We’ve used pillows

How do you stop sinful behaviours?

How do you stop sinful behaviours?

I get a lot of comments and questions from people asking “How do I stop sinful behaviour?” and it’s a difficult question to answer.  Whether you’re trying to quit porn, yelling at your kids, or overeating, it’s really the same issue.  Our sinful nature is

Is make-up sex a myth?

I received a question recently about the topic of make-up sex.  It’s something I’ve been thinking about as well for the last year or so, so I’m glad they brought it up. Here’s the question (used with permission): Today at church, I was in the

Saving your marriage before it starts

Saving your marriage before it starts – Book Review

Do you ever wish someone had handed you a book when you got married to get you started on the right footing?  Or one that would have helped in saving your marriage from a lot of the struggles you’ve experienced as a couple? You know,

Is it okay for widows to masturbate?

Is it sinful for widows to masturbate?

How do you answer the question of whether or not it’s okay for widows to masturbate?  Well, I got asked this very question back in August and I’ll admit, I’ve been hesitant to answer it.  Here’s the comment from our Are sex toys allowed in