Last night, in the chat room after our webinar, I was asked about dealing with sexual struggles that occur later in life, and I didn’t have a whole lot to offer, because I haven’t really written on the topic yet. Also, I’m only 34, so
Monthly Archives: January 2016
Why you shouldn’t ask for God to take away your sex drive
Over the years, I’ve heard many people, men and women, say that they wish God would take away their sex drive. In our darkest days of marriage, I did the same myself. These days, I’m glad God didn’t grant me that wish. More recently, this
SWM013: Morning Sex
Podcast: Play in new window | Download | EmbedSubscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music | Android | iHeartRadio | Podchaser | Email | TuneIn | Deezer | RSSThis week, I’m talking about morning sex, that is sex when you first
Why masturbation is a problem, whether you’re married or single
There were some people who were … let’s say disgruntled … by my podcast episode last week where I shared my views on solo masturbation. Many argued that there’s no reason single people can’t masturbate. So, I thought I’d write a post in response and
Is your marriage an oasis?
This post is mostly me thinking aloud. I’m exploring a thought, something I’ve noticed in my own marriage and others. Many marriage experts, counselors, therapists, etc. will tell you that people need time to decompress between work and home life. They need time to shift
What can you do with a sexually unadventurous spouse?
Here’s another question I received from our Have A Question page: My wife isn’t very adventurous. What can I do to respect her wishes to be less adventurous? What can I do to help her become more adventurous? It’s really two questions, isn’t it, but
SWM012: Why do married men masturbate?
Podcast: Play in new window | Download | EmbedSubscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music | Android | iHeartRadio | Podchaser | Email | TuneIn | Deezer | RSSI wrote a post on this topic a few years ago and thought
Overcoming guilt from an affair
This week I received a question, as I often do, through our Have A Question page. However, this time the one asking asked not to share the whole question as she didn’t want anyone to guess the identities of the people in question. So, I’m
Can you have oral sex after intercourse?
I received this question a few days ago through our Have A Question page: I like going down on my wife after we finish having sex. Is there any issues with this? Now, there’s a very short, simple answer to this: No. There are no issues.
Book Review: Keep Your Love On
Way back in September, a publicist contacted me in regards to the book Keep Your Love On! by Danny Silk. They wanted to know if I was interested in a book on relationships written by a pastor, and, if I liked it, could I review
SWM011: How to train your spouse
Podcast: Play in new window | Download | EmbedSubscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music | Android | iHeartRadio | Podchaser | Email | TuneIn | Deezer | RSSThis week we’re discussing how you train your spouse. In all human relationships,